Deliberate Practice

Deliberate practice is effortful and narrowly focused. It is challenging but more rewarding that living in a state of addiction or maladaptive behavior. It is used to preplan and prepare for Conditions of...

The Himmer It System

Himmer It! This is a process that changes behavior, addresses fear, corrects false narratives, and gives you permission to face the internal saboteur. Here is what some of my clients are saying: Considering that there’s a new level of really high chaos in my...

Heaven On Earth: Communicating Within the Family

Parent’s Pain Priority Plan Parenting is a shuffling act when things go well, but when life backs up like bad plumbing, even chaos is a welcomed friend. What each parent needs is a Parenting Plan that Prioritizes what will inevitably come – pain. Pain me now or...

Are Your Children Peer or Parent Centric?

Shortly after WWII, a social phenomenon occurred which transformed the family structure and reduced the influence of parental units to a subservient role. We moved from a parent-centric to a peer-centric model with information hubs stemming from sources least capable...

Teaching

Teaching is the process of neutrally delegating learning to the student, the child, the direct report or coworker. Learning is the process of self-discovery. Teaching shortens the learning process. Telling lengthens it, sometimes indefinitely. Telling has the...

A Rock Star for A Day

For one day I know what it feels like to be a celebrity. Not the kind that creates a frenzy of thoughtless screaming and reckless behavior. But the kind that stems from sincere appreciation and gratitude. And the fan base is made up of First through Fifth graders at...
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